Directions

The “Consider This” discussion assignment is an opportunity for a casual discussion on an interesting topic on Guidance and Counseling.

1. Initial answer is due on Thursday of week 8, 11:59 pm CT. This assignment is worth 8 points.
2. Response to peer’s discussion of their “Consider This” topic is worth 3 points. Response is due Sunday noon of Unit 7.

See Assignments and Grading for a rubric for this assignment.

“Consider This” Topic

Choose one of the “Consider This” topics to discuss. In the Subject line of your response please identify which topic you are commenting on.

1. In what significant ways, if any do you see yourself as having a distinct identity and being psychologically separate from your family of origin? And in what ways, if any, are you still psychologically fused with your family of origin? Are there any aspects of this that you want to change?
2. In some cultures autonomy is not a cherished value. Instead, children are viewed as having an obligation not to emerge to distinctly from the rest of the family. A collective sense is given more value than individual independence. What cultural values influenced the degree to which you have striven toward autonomy? Are there any values that stem from your culture that you want to retain? Any that you want to challenge or to modify?
3. The concept of boundaries as used in family therapy refers to emotional barriers that protect and enhance the integrity of members of a system. It also refers to a delineation between members that is governed by implicit or explicit rules pertaining to who can participate and in what manner. Apply the notion of boundaries to your development. In growing up in your family, what boundaries existed between you and your parents? Between your parents and the siblings? Among the siblings? Between your parents? What did you learn about boundaries? Do you have any challenges with boundaries today?
4. How might you address a theme such as patriarchy if you were working with a family whose culture places the father in the key role of making decisions for the entire family? Do you see it as your job to challenge certain cultural values if you think that such values lead to oppression of women?